I have to say that the majority of traditions that mark my
holidays come from Truman Capote's "A Christmas Memory". The roots of
placing the cards I receive on my front door for the coming year can be found
in this passage, I've no doubt.
"The black stove, stoked with coal and firewood, glows
like a lighted pumpkin. Eggbeaters whirl, spoons spin round in bowls of butter
and sugar, vanilla sweetens the air, ginger spices it; melting, nose-tingling
odors saturate the kitchen, suffuse the house, drift out to the world on
puffs of chimney smoke. In four days our work is done. Thirty-one cakes,
dampened with whiskey, bask on windowsills and shelves.
"Who are they for?
"Friends. Not necessarily neighbor friends: indeed, the
larger share is intended for persons we've met maybe once, perhaps not at all.
People who've struck our fancy. Like President Roosevelt. Like the Reverend and
Mrs. J. C. Lucey, Baptist missionaries to Borneo who lectured here last winter.
Or the little knife grinder who comes through town twice a year. Or Abner
Packer, the driver of the six o'clock bus from Mobile, who exchanges waves with
us every day as he passes in a dust-cloud whoosh. Or the young Wistons, a
California couple whose car one afternoon broke down outside the house and who
spent a pleasant hour chatting with us on the porch (young Mr. Wiston snapped
our picture, the only one we've ever had taken). Is it because my friend is shy
with everyone except strangers that these strangers, and merest acquaintances,
seem to us our truest friends? I think yes. Also, the scrapbooks we keep of
thank-you's on White House stationery, time-to-time communications from
California and Borneo, the knife grinder's penny post cards, make us feel
connected to eventful worlds beyond the kitchen with its view of a sky that
stops."
It used to be for many years I would host a gathering at
this time of the year with a dinner proper, and then I would read to whole of
the story to my guests. If you're
looking for a tradition to share with friends, this might just be the one to
start!
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